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Welcome to Relaxed Wahmmy!


I'm really excited to launch this blog. I had to wait months to make sure I was ready.

My name is Clarisse; proud mommy to Isha, an amazing partner to Bunch (CLAIM IT!) and a freelancer. I am your resident Relaxed Wahmmy on this page. This is my calm (sometimes chaotic) blog about parenting, homemaking, freelancing and life in general. 

A couple of things that you have to know about me;

  • I love to eat more than I love to cook, which explains my never-ending weight loss journey. 
  • I used to be a call center hopper. Now, I work from home and have been dancing to this crazy tune for a little over four years. 
  • I triumphed over unemployment despite my lack of college degree! My story is not a fairy tale, but it is one worth sharing!
  • There are times when all I really want to do is find a 'real job', but most of the time; I just sit on my desk and do BUSINESS! 
  • I am proud of my daughter, and think she's the loveliest kid in the whole wide world.
  • I would someday visit Japan and US with Isha and Bunch (CLAIM IT!)

Relaxed Wahmmy will hold my deepest (and not-so-deep!) thoughts about my various roles in life. It is my attempt to regularly reflect on my situations and decisions. It is my way of connecting with a world bigger than myself. Hopefully, it will help me become a better person and bring me a step closer to become the Relaxed Wahmmy that I aspire to be.

I would be pleased to be with someone in this journey. Come join me! This blog is not just for me or for freelancers/moms/WAHMs like me. It is for everyone who can relate/identify with my stories. It is for everyone. Period. ^^

See you around!

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